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Working with me: A holistic and pragmatic approach to healing emotional wounds
Explaining my supportive and practical approach of helping clients
Anita Jade
May 16, 20255 min read


What is emotional regulation, and how do you develop it?
Learn what emotional regulation really is, why it matters, and practical ways to manage emotions, triggers, and nervous system responses.
Anita Jade
May 308 min read


What is Complex Trauma (CPTSD?)
Defining Complex PTSD (CPTSD)? While PTSD has to do with a single overwhelming event, Complex PTSD (CPTSD) is the prolonged or repeated experiences of stress, fear, emotional pain, or relational trauma over time, particularly where a person felt trapped, powerless, or emotionally alone. From a developmental perspective, CPTSD can develop through experiences such as childhood emotional neglect, unstable caregiving, chronic criticism, emotional unpredictability, bullying, abusi
Anita Jade
May 127 min read


Why sensitivity, hypervigilance and people-pleasing are often childhood trauma responses
Have you ever been told you're"too sensitive", or find yourself able to pick up on subtle changes in the room or a person's facial expressions and body language? This heightened awareness may feel like a personality trait, but more often than not, they are protective adaptations from unsafe environments. In this article, we’ll explore how sensitivity and hypervigilance are not flaws, but intelligent responses formed in unsafe or unpredictable environments. What is hypervigila
Anita Jade
Jul 5, 20254 min read


The hidden weight of self-criticism: How your inner voice shapes your life
An article about how a harsh inner critic shows up in every facet of your life.
Anita Jade
Mar 29, 20255 min read


Attachment Wounds: Why Childhood Relationships Still Affect You as an Adult
What is relational trauma? Relational trauma occurs when a person has experienced repeated emotional injuries within close relationships, particularly in early life. It often stems from caregivers who are neglectful, emotionally unavailable, abusive, or inconsistent in their affection and emotional support. Unlike a single traumatic event, relational trauma develops over time, shaping a person’s sense of self, safety, and ability to connect with others. Chronic relational tra
Anita Jade
Mar 3, 20255 min read


Understanding EMDR: How it works and what to expect
Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a psychotherapy method that has gained significant recognition for its efficacy in treating post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). The World Health Organisation (WHO) and American Psychiatric Association (APA) both recommend EMDR as a frontline treatment for trauma. Developed by Francine Shapiro in the late 1980s, EMDR is particularly unique because it does not rely heavily on traditional talk therapy. Instead, it incorp
Anita Jade
Jan 28, 20255 min read


The importance of pacing your healing
When big things happen to us, it's normal not to deal with it right away. There are times when emotions are too big for us to contain,...
Anita Jade
Oct 11, 20242 min read


Mindset has more to do with mental health than you think
What is mindset? A mindset is a set of beliefs, attitudes, and assumptions that shape the way a person perceives and responds to the...
Anita Jade
Dec 1, 20234 min read


Understanding Highly Sensitive People (HSPs): their gifts, pitfalls and defining traits
Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) are a unique segment of the population that make up about 20 percent of people. The term was coined by psychologist Dr. Elaine Aron in the 1990s, and ever since it has gained popularity and understanding over the years even in the mainstream. As the name suggests, HSPs have heightened sensitivity to stimuli in the forms of the five physical senses as well as emotional sensitivity. HSPs possess a nervous system that makes them more responsive to
Anita Jade
Nov 12, 20235 min read
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